Dreams of a better life are the desires of every person in this world, regardless of whether they lived thousand years ago, are alive now or will be born in thousand years. Everyone always says that here and now is bad, that they want to be happier and change lives for the better. There are only a handful of people who can do it. It is worth finding out what successful people do, so their lives are in accordance with the dream. It is also good to learn what they do not do, because it interferes with the development and improvement of reality. Here some personal development tips for a better life.
It's not my fault
This is one of the fundamental mistakes made by people who do not believe they have a control over their lives. If you assume that your bad luck is the fault of fate, destiny, history, or other people, you will certainly not become a master of your own destiny. Such bad thinking encodes your brain into stagnation and disbelief in your own abilities. People who achieve their dreams certainly do not do that. They tell themselves that they can do it, that the situation will eventually work out well for them.
Speak and think of yourself wellAnother very important, simple, yet difficult to practice principle of action - you need to talk and think about yourself positively, much better than the world perceives you at the time. It is you and only you that can judge yourself, punish or reward something. You cannot undermine your self-esteem telling yourself that you are worthless, just because the world would like to see your failures. Do not listen to anyone. You are your own judge and a trainer, be a demanding and forgiving one.
Live for yourself, do not let others rule you
Learning assertiveness is one of the very important elements for changing your life. You must learn to say “no” when you feel that something does not agree with your principles, worldview or dreams. You have to understand that people will always want to impose their opinion on you, their will and will expect you to accept it. But they do not live your life. Therefore stop agreeing to let someone rule you or even manipulate you.
Break your fear
Realise what scares and limits you. Accept the fact that you have the right to be afraid, because you are human. It is your duty to fight your fear, confront it and make it disappear. Then you will gain unprecedented strength and confidence that will allow you to develop.
Move away from other people who slow you down
Those are difficult breakups, but necessary to live a happy and full life. It may be that you have to resign from having a close contact with family or friends. Realise which people around you believe in you limitlessly and support you and which convince you that you cannot deal with something, that you should not do anything new in life. Such relationships are toxic and will not help you grow. People who slow you down in life, often achieve very little and subconsciously do not want you to be better.
Author: Bien Magazine
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